The Dictionary, Quirks, and Skipping for No Reason

I have just returned from a quest through the dictionary to define a quirk. I know the definition of a quirk. In fact, I am endeared to people for their quirks. I am simply in search of a way to explain quirks that adequately conveys how I feel about them. The fruits of my labor are as follows:

Quirk – A peculiarity
My first thoughts were of the negative stereotype that accompanies the root word peculiar. As in odd, strange, and creepy even. How wrong this stereotype is.

Peculiar – Of only one person; special; not general
General is what is expected. I am not impressed with the general world today. People are rude. People are fake. People are stupid. I am attracted to those that are not general. Not until thinking about it did I realize thoughtfulness, sincerity, and common sense are peculiarities. I appreciate each of these traits in someone, they set that person apart. Quirks are of only one person; each individual has their own. Quirks are a fearless expression of self. I find genuineness admirable. It is refreshing to experience someone childish and ridiculous. Silliness should not be looked down on. So what if someone skips around everywhere for no reason, adds animated hand gestures to everything they say, or is way too hard on their self. Quirks are special in that they make someone the person they are.

Special – Eeceptional; highly valued
I highly value people who are quirky and peculiar. The world could definitely stand to learn something from them. Thoughtful gestures aren’t exactly something you encounter too much these days. I think that’s sad. If you can’t smile at a stranger or reach out and touch someone you care about, you definitely need to slow down and learn that’s it the small stuff that matters. Someone surprising you with something small that you’ll love means so much, I think. A picture they’ve colored, a cheap something that holds personal meaning, or a simple handwritten note that makes you laugh. An unexpected, inexpensive gift means more than an expensive gift purchased for a certain holiday or occasion.

Most people that I consider my closest friends are everything I have described above. They are exceptional. Their quirks are my favorite. I don’t “put up” with them. I love and accept them for everything they are. And they do the same for me.